Shock swept through parts of Owerri last weekend after a heartbroken man from Mbano, Imo State was reportedly abandoned by his fiancée days before their church wedding, despite having spent millions on her traditional marriage and academic pursuit. The incident, which has become the talk of social media, has sparked heated conversations around betrayal, trust, and the controversial practice among some Mbano men who now insist on impregnating women before committing fully.
The groom, whose identity is being shielded due to emotional trauma, had reportedly fulfilled all traditional marriage rites for his partner in 2024 and spared no cost in sponsoring her through law school. Friends of the groom revealed he also lavished her with cash, designer items, and hosted her family in high style during their engagement festivities. Their white wedding was scheduled to hold on April 5, 2025, in Owerri.
Just as final preparations were being made, the bride allegedly called off the wedding without explanation, citing a “change of heart” during a private conversation with close friends. This move blindsided the groom, who had already printed wedding programs, paid for the event hall, booked guest accommodation, and sent out hundreds of invitation cards.
Social media erupted after the story surfaced, with many users—especially from Imo State—expressing support for the jilted groom. Others argued that the incident validates the controversial approach by some Mbano men who now demand a “pregnancy assurance” before investing heavily in marriage or education. “You can’t lose money and love at the same time,” one X (Twitter) user said.
Sources close to the groom disclosed that legal consultations may be underway, especially regarding the significant educational investment he made in the young lady’s life. While no formal legal action has been taken yet, family elders are said to be involved in an attempt to retrieve part of the groom’s financial loss through traditional arbitration.
This case has once again brought to light growing concerns about trust and exploitation in modern relationships, especially where one partner bankrolls the other’s future with full marital expectations. Critics say the absence of legal documentation or prenuptial agreements in such cases leaves many vulnerable, while others insist that love should never require receipts.
As the heartbroken groom begins the painful task of moving on, his story has become a cautionary tale for young men across the southeast. It also reinforces the social media slogan now trending among netizens: “Mbano men no dey carry last.” This incident adds to the rising number of relationship betrayals that stir debate around entitlement, investment, and accountability in love.
