Nollywood veteran Kanayo O. Kanayo has sent a bold message to his daughter, Valerie, on her 25th birthday, setting high expectations for her future. The actor, known for his roles in Nigerian films and his strong public persona, took to social media to celebrate Valerie’s milestone while making it clear that he wants her to take significant life steps before turning 27.
In an Instagram post filled with blessings and love, Kanayo O. Kanayo emphasized the importance of growth, responsibility, and independence. His message to Valerie was not just about celebrating her birthday but also a reminder to set concrete goals for the next two years. He told his daughter that by 2027, she should either be married, have completed her PhD, or moved out to live independently. The message was clear: Valerie is expected to take charge of her future.
The actor’s message read, “From little Valerie to a prospective Madam Uloaku. As I told you this morning while praying for you, it should be a day of sober reflections, things to copy, things to paste, and things to delete.” Kanayo’s expectations were rooted in the belief that it is time for Valerie to step into adulthood with clear goals and aspirations. He referred to her by the name “Uloaku,” which means “Bank/House of Wealth,” showing his deep affection for her and the hopes he has for her future.
Recalling moments from Valerie’s childhood, Kanayo spoke about how she would often challenge him on his busy schedule. The actor explained that the demanding nature of his profession, constantly traveling for roles, was a part of being a successful actor. Despite the challenges it posed to his family life, he expressed gratitude for his continued success and relevance in the industry, saying, “Good actors travel, always on the move because they are always HIRED. Thank God I am still very active and relevant.”
Kanayo’s post, however, took a serious turn when he set the conditions for Valerie’s future by the time she turns 27. He stated, “In all these, please ensure that before 2027, you are either walking down the aisle, going for your PhD, or walking out of my house. Simpliciter.” The message was a call for Valerie to begin shaping her own destiny and living on her terms, away from the comfort of her father’s home.
For Kanayo O. Kanayo, this tough love message reflects his values as a father, encouraging his daughter to be self-sufficient and ambitious. It also highlights his desire for her to make substantial achievements, whether through education, marriage, or independence, before reaching a certain age. While some may see his expectations as high, they underscore his belief in the power of hard work, dedication, and responsible decision-making.
As Valerie marks her quarter-century milestone, Kanayo O. Kanayo’s words will likely resonate with many parents who strive to balance their love and support with pushing their children to achieve greatness. His message to his daughter not only speaks to her personal growth but also serves as a reflection of Nigerian values surrounding family, education, and success.
